Review Appointment

I gave in and admitted defeat last night by phoning my GP to say how I'd been struggling over the weekend with pain and infection like symptoms. The receptionist was so nice and gave me an appointment for first thing because she said they'd rather see me in person than talk over the phone. I saw one of the registrar doctors who was really patient and looked at how they can help me "manage" the pain in the meantime while all the other professionals involved come up with this plan. I briefly explained about over the weekend and just how disruptive endometriosis has been. I finish my antibiotics tomorrow but still don't feel myself. She said the cultures came back negative and that she was certain it was endometriosis causing the problem and playing havoc with my body. We decided to just discontinue the antibiotic use and try and focus on pain control in the meantime. My point was that the antibiotics aren't really treating or doing anything to help with the issue. We talked a lot about pain control and she looked at my current medications. She didn't make many changes but she changed me back to domperidone for antisickness because Cyclizine side effects have been really unpleasant. She has been referring to the "pain toolkit" a lot and has given me a prescription of Tramadol which is a stronger pain killer to take as and when required. All the GP's can do in the meantime is help me manage the symptoms because it's the hospital consultants that are coming up with a plan and what steps to take to manage the condition. She had asked if I worked in a hospital because I was using medical terms when talking about the pain and problems endo was causing but because I hear them so often on the ward it's words that I tend to use😂

I asked about the MRI results and she checked the system for them but they weren't there. There was a letter from 15th of March about my three month post-op review and referral letters. She let me have a look but there was nothing in my record about me actually having the MRI scan. She explained that it looks more than likely that Dr J is taking the scan results to the MDT to be discussed as they're still unclear on which hospital are doing the surgery based on how complicated it may be. I was quite annoyed that there was nothing on the system about the MRI even if there was something that my GP could tell me about the outcome of it. It's not just me that's being kept in the dark it's my GP as well because she couldn't really give me any indication or reassurance. It's okay for consultants to say they'll be discussing this at an MDT but as the patient your the one that's left waiting not knowing what's happening. They could have informed me on what's happening because it's my health and my body. Communication between the hospital and my GP hasn't been the best because after the complications from my first operation the GP wasn't even aware I had the surgery and had been discharged awaiting a review.

I was then asked "So how are you feeling about all of this and how are you managing?" The second GP who's actually took a minute to ask how I'm doing. I couldn't really find the words to fully explain to her but I started off by saying "this is so hard" and she said that she can't imagine how difficult it must be and that I have a right to feel whatever I'm feeling. I had explained that I use Instagram for support and how comforting it can be to see someone write "me too" as it makes you realise that your not alone in this. I said there are a few people I feel I can talk to about it whether it's through email or in person because they actually understand and that insensitive comments that I've had are what makes me want to hide it all away. I told her about how difficult it is being young and feeling like I'm having to put my life on hold. My dad today came to the realisation that this isn't going to go away and I'm stuck with this illness for the rest of my life which was hard to hear because sometimes I just wish this was all one bad dream. You know that does really scare me the fact I'm young and have a chronic condition. The possibilities on how this illness may impact my future and I hate even writing this or when people ask me about it but the possibility of not being able to have my own children. I would never wish endometriosis on anyone. It does make you question a lot of things like what if this was diagnosed earlier would it have caused less problems than what it's causing now. If only the doctors listened to me six years ago instead of dismissing my concerns as normal and being told it's all in my head. I just hope that things start to become a bit clearer soon and I'll actually have an idea of what's actually happening.